Homeschooling: Why I Love our Library


We are not a family who gets sick very often. However, we've been sick lately. I've been battling a cough and cold for about 3 weeks. My kids have caught it in the last few days too, causing us to take a few "sick days" off of school. 

My husband, who is a librarian at our local public library, reminded me that our library now has "hoopla." Hoopla is a digital library where you can check out music, videos and audiobooks. It's just like checking out a DVD or CD from the library except that you can do it from home. All you need is a library card and the internet.

So my kids recently have enjoyed watching some kid videos like Curious George and Veggietales while they've been sick on the couch. 

Easy. Free. And we didn't have to leave the house. Perfect!

Thank you, hoopla and our local library, for making my life a little bit easier as I nurse my kids back to health!

Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month


Today marks 2 years since my third miscarriage. October is also Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month. So for those reasons, today I'm remembering my three "other" children - those in heaven already. 

Grant David. Hope. Isaac. 

I can say that I am healing. 
Two years ago I was a mess and at a difficult place with God. I could not understand His purposes in the miscarriages and suffering I was going through. One year ago I was nearing my due date with a healthy pregnancy. And this year I am keeping up with my busy 10-month old daughter, who doesn't afford me a lot of time to sit, think or reflect. 

But I am at a better place emotionally. Although October is always a dark, dreary month to me, I have been able to see more bright spots this year. I have been able to enjoy some of the beauty.  My focus is shifting. 

And I am at a better place with my Lord. I have stopped asking why. I will never know why. Yet time and perspective allow me to see at least a glimpse of good that has come from my suffering and pain. And having a baby in our home has helped bring healing too. 

So I am remembering my other three. 
I am still sad. I still miss them. 
I still long to see them and hold them. 
But I am also smiling at my baby girl's antics, 
and my 6-year-old son as he almost swallowed a tooth that fell out, and at my beautiful 11-year-old daughter as she roller-skates in the driveway to soak in the last sunshiny warmth of these fall days.

God is good, all the time, because that is His nature. 
He can be nothing else. 
So when He appears to be something else, it is my perspective that is flawed, not His nature. 

1 Corinthians 13 - Now we know in part, but when perfection comes, then we will know fully. 

Until that day, when I can hug and kiss and smile at them as we walk together on those streets of gold, I remember and look forward to the day of truly meeting my other three children.

Baby Girl - 10 Months


In just a few more days this little darling will be 10 months old! 

She is quite mobile now, crawling everywhere. Her crawl is mostly an army crawl, though, with a few occasional belly-off-the-floor moves. She pulls up on furniture but is still unsteady on her feet. No first steps have happened yet, but we're watching for them.

She's been in her own crib in her own room now for a few weeks. That is going great! She is often sleeping through the night without waking at all. Every few nights she gets up once just to keep me on my toes! I find that my body has adjusted to not needing as much sleep as I used to (say, a year or more ago) so I've been spending an hour reading before bed each night. What a luxury! 

She got her first two teeth recently. She enjoys baby food but especially likes to gum up cheerios and soft cooked veggies like broccoli and green beans. 

She says "mama" and seems to know what she's saying. Same with "dada."  She says words that may be names for brother and sister, but we're not sure. She waves good-bye. She loves to clap and patty-cake. 

This girl LOVES dogs. She goes crazy when she sees dogs in our neighborhood and after they've passed by, she cries. We're sticking to our guns, though, and NOT getting a dog any time soon. She'll have to be content with seeing all of the dozens of dogs that live in our neighborhood as they are out and about.

We love you, Little Miss, and are loving these precious days with you!

Baby Girl Gets Teeth


This baby girl got some teeth this week! 
The first one popped out on Monday 
and its twin showed up today.

You probably can't see the teeth in the pictures, 
but you can see her happy smile clearly! 

Love this little lady! 

The Classics


Classic Literature. Sounds like a college English class. But I've been reading through some classics lately and have been challenged by the process. 

My husband found a great 14-volume set of condensed classic books for free. Who can pass up free!?! Not us! So we incorporated these onto our bookshelves and I began to work my way through them. Although they are "condensed" each story is still 100-300 pages in length, which still gives the feel of reading the classics.

So far I've read...
Treasure Island 
David Copperfield 
The Call of the Wild
Madame Curie 
The Scarlet Pimpernel 
The Good Earth 
Robin Hood 
The Story of Helen Keller
My Friend Flicka
Horatio Hornblower
Jane Eyre
Abe Lincoln Grows Up 
The Hunchback of Notre Dame
Great Cases of Sherlock Holmes

I still have another 40 or so titles to get through. I find it takes me about 1-2 weeks per title, so it'll be a while before I finish the entire set. But what a treasure these are! So many of these are well-known classic titles, but have you actually read them? I recognize titles but have only read a handful of them, and even those were in high school English class. 

My favorites thus far were the Sherlock Holmes cases (which were fascinating, what incredible observation skills Holmes has) and the Scarlet Pimpernel (which reminded me of the 1990s movie True Lies - where a wife is unsuspecting that her husband is leading a double-life performing dangerous government-related missions). Both of those were stories that I'd gladly read again and again.

Least favorites would include The Hunchback of Notre Dame  and The Good Earth (both of which seemed to lack a point or moral or lesson in any way).

Robin Hood surprised me since it was similar at the core to the Disney version I remember from my childhood but many details were different from that version or the Robin Hood Prince of Thieves Kevin-Costner movie I remember. Treasure Island was a good read, though somewhat bloody in battle scenes, which makes it a good "boy" book (note to self for my son's future reading material).

Alone (which tells the story of Richard Byrd who spent 5 months all alone manning a weather station in the Antarctic) and Madame Curie (the story of Pierre and Marie Curie's discovery of Radium) were both inspirational stories of real life heroics in the scientific field.

So here's to the classics... and actually reading them! 

Inside and Outside


My baby girl.

9 months inside the womb 
and now 9 months outside the womb 

For her 9 months inside the womb, she was restless and moved and kicked a lot. During her 9 months outside the womb, she continued to be restless and generally hasn't slept well and kicked a lot. 

For her 9 months inside the womb, she was fed by my body. During her 9 months outside the womb, she continued to be fed almost entirely by my body. I thank God for the opportunity to nurse her, as I was unable to do so with my other children. 

For her 9 months inside the womb, Mama was her favorite person. During her 9 months outside the womb, Mama remains her favorite person. However, Daddy and brother and sister are all in the running now! 

How we love this little girl! 
How easily she has come to be a natural 
irreplaceable part of our family! 
How uniquely and beautifully 
each family member has embraced her. 

We continue to thank the Lord for this happy and healthy baby girl. What a blessing!

Baby Girl


A few recent pictures of our baby girl, nearing 9 months old.

Time with big sister

Sniffing a flower from our garden

Sitting with mama

With Grandma K in Wisconsin

Baby girl enjoying some outdoor swing time

Growing, growing, growing up. 
Loving, loving, loving it!

First Loose Tooth


My son recently lost his very first tooth. 


Growing up... 

A Boy and a Baby


My son, who is now 6 years old, is a typical boy. He's into trucks and balls and swords and wrestling. And yet, when he is around his baby sister, his tender side emerges, quite by surprise. 

He loves to hold his little sister. He *tries* to carry her around. He likes to give her toys to play with. 

He likes to put bowls on her head and laugh at her. :-)

They are both such a breath of fresh air for our family!

Trip to Wisconsin


We recently took a trip to Wisconsin to visit my side of the family. We try to make it up once in the summer and then again at Christmastime. So Labor Day was our weekend to head up this year. 

My mom had a luau party while we were there. Well, really it was just an excuse to get everyone together while we were visiting. I appreciate that she does this when we visit so we can easily see all of my brothers and their families.

So here is my baby girl with her festive flowers.

We had a great time together, as we always do. Mom had set up a swimming pool in the yard for the kids to enjoy. Here's my son and cousin Trinity having a blast in the pool. 

Thanks, Mom, for hosting a great party for all of us! 

Beach Day


On one hot summer day last week we headed to the beach with our friends. 

We make this trek once annually, which honestly is about as much beach as this mama can handle!

I have my 3 kids - ages 11, 6 and 8-months. My friend Leah goes with us with her 3 kids - ages 8, 6 and 3. Leah is also pregnant with her 4th. So our hands are full when we make this trip, though we are thankful for our older children who help to keep an eye on the younger ones. 

Two things set this beach day apart from the rest. One, we remembered to take our sled which helped greatly in transporting our towels, snacks, etc. over the sand. Two thumbs up - must remember this for next year! Second, this was the year of the biting flies. For whatever reason, these pesky biting flies would not leave us alone! They stayed near the ground, not coming higher than a foot off the ground. So our legs looked good to them and they bit, bit and bit all they wanted! The kids were in constant motion which kept the flies at bay, but for Leah and myself we had to wrap our legs tightly with towels to keep the biting flies away. Ugh! 

Another summer bucket list item crossed off! 

Baby Girl is 8 Months Old


I knew it would happen, but it still seems to shock me - my baby girl is growing and just won't stop! 

She's 8 months old now. 
She weighs 20 pounds plus a few ounces. 

She eats a jar of baby food at lunchtime. 
She eats another jar at suppertime. 

She still is not the best sleeper, though she has fallen into a more regular pattern of daytime naps. Nighttime is still a struggle, as she is up many times a night. She does consistently go to bed around 7 pm and wake for the day at 7 am, which is a blessing. 

Happy 8-months, baby girl! 

Birthday Celebrations


We recently had a birthday bash to celebrate my daughter turning 11, as well as my birthday (which is 2 days after hers) and my husband's birthday (which was 3 weeks ago). 

We have such a fun time! 

 My hubby grilled out shish-kabobs. Yummo! We also enjoyed watermelon, custard eggs, pasta salad, homemade pickles from our garden, root beer floats. 

Some folks hung out outside. 
The weather was great to be outside.

A view of folks chatting inside the house.

Here's my daughter with her 11 candles and cake.

My silly husband and myself as we listened to the birthday song and prepared to blow out our candles. Yes, he decided to smoke his candle :-)

Here's my littlest daughter being entertained by Great Uncle (a.k.a. Gruncle) Greg. 

Here's my daughter opening up a gift. She received 2 lava lamps, which were on her wish list. 

They have provided hours of entertainment since she opened them. 

My son had to get a good grin in for the camera. 
He's such a sweetie! 

On my actual birthday, my niece Racquel was over to spend some time with us. She and my now 11-year-old daughter decorated a cake and cupcakes. They also cleaned up after themselves in the kitchen, which was a great birthday gift to me! :-)

Fun times with family, celebrating life. 
Thank you God for these precious times together!

Grandma Visits


My mom visited us recently. She comes down from Wisconsin once or twice a year for a weekend visit. 

She always brings us fresh, squeaky cheese curds. Mmmm. 

And she lavishes love on us while she's visiting. She snuggles and cuddles with the kids. And she takes us out to eat as a family, which is a rare treat for us. 

Grandma plays a few board games with the kids. Here they are playing Clue, a family favorite.

She was a good sport to play with my kids outside. 

Here is Grandma with my three kids. 

We love you, Grandma! Thanks for the visit!

Birthday Girl


My oldest daughter turned 11 this week! 

It's such a delight to get to experience life with this girl every day. She brings joy to our lives, for sure! 

This girl keeps shooting up, taller and taller. She will probably pass me up in the next 12 months. She's learning and growing. Little by little, she's inching out of her comfort zone and trying new things.

I can see her maturing. She's becoming more and more helpful around the house - in the kitchen, with the younger children, etc. She's less into little-kid-toys and more into decorating her room with cool things. Her favorite birthday gift this year was a lava lamp. She actually got 2 - one red, one blue - and loves them!

We love you so much, Bright Eyes!
Happy Birthday!



A few days ago my brother Todd and his family were passing through Indiana while on vacation. They stopped by to visit for a few hours. We had a nice time, chatting and eating together. 

Here is my sister-in-law Becky and niece Isabelle playing with my little girl. 

Fun times with family! 



The zoo.

I'm thankful that we have a zoo nearby. Once or twice a year we head that way and enjoy a few hours at the zoo. 

Recently we went to the zoo, along with my friend Leah and her 3 kids. With 6 kids between us now (and another on the way -  Leah is expecting her 4th), the zoo is more of an adventure than it used to be!

This was my baby girl's first time at the zoo. She's too young to really get it. I think it was just like a long stroller ride for her.

The highlight of the zoo is always the zoo train ride, which is brief but fun. In second place, though, would be the river otter exhibit. With an under-water viewing area, it's entertaining to watch the otters dive and play underwater.

Already looking forward to our 2015 trip to the zoo with 7 little ones in tow! Wowzers! 

Seven Month Baby


Baby girl turned 7 months old this week. 

7 months already... ay, ay, ay!

She still isn't a great sleeper. She goes to bed between 8 and 10 pm and sleeps until 8 or 9 am. But she's still up at least twice each night. During the day she takes either 1 or 2 naps, totally 2-3 hours. 

She rolls all the time now, getting across the room fairly quickly. No crawling yet, but it'll be happening soon, I suspect. 

She jabbers a lot, saying "da da da da." 

She eats some baby food at supper time each day. So far she's liking green beans and mango and pears. 

Happy 7 months, baby girl!

Daddy's Birthday


Daddy has a birthday today! The big 39!

The kids and I made a poster with 39 things we love about Dad. Creating that list got us thinking about all the different things there are to love - that he takes out the trash, that he goes on bike rides with us, he takes us on vacations, he reads to us, etc. 

Along with the banner, we gave him a new coffee mug filled with chocolate goodies and a birthday balloon! 

We love our Daddy! 

Happy birthday to you!

Dress Like a Cow


It's that time of year again - "Dress Like a Cow, Get Free Chicken" day at our local Chick-fil-a restaurant.

This was the first time for this little miss, who didn't really need the free food anyway. But she did look adorable in the hat, don't you think?!

The other kids and myself, well, we've enjoyed dressing up like cows for years...

In fact, I keep most of these cow outfits in a special place in the closet so it's easy to pull them out each July. 
The silly things we do for free food!